{"id":20983,"date":"2026-09-27T02:17:22","date_gmt":"2026-09-27T02:17:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/readingmydairy.com\/?p=20983"},"modified":"2026-09-27T02:17:22","modified_gmt":"2026-09-27T02:17:22","slug":"my-grandkids-went-back-home-after-staying-with-me-all-summer-but-while-changing-the-sheets-on-their-bed-i-found-something-tucked-under-the-mattress-that-made-me-forget-how-to-speak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/readingmydairy.com\/?p=20983","title":{"rendered":"My Grandkids Went Back Home After Staying with Me All Summer \u2013 But While Changing the Sheets on Their Bed, I Found Something Tucked Under the Mattress That Made Me Forget How to Speak"},"content":{"rendered":"

I thought the summer had brought my family closer. But after my grandkids went home, one small discovery made me question what had really been happening behind the scenes. The more I learned, the more I realized love could hide things just as easily as fear.<\/strong><\/h1>\n

My grandson had carried the same little green backpack around my house for two months\u2014to breakfast, the park, movie nights, everywhere.<\/p>\n

Once, I moved it three feet so I could vacuum, and nine-year-old Ben appeared beside me before I\u2019d even plugged the vacuum in.<\/p>\n

<\/div>\n

\u201cI\u2019ll take it, Grandma.\u201d<\/p>\n

I\u2019d laughed then.<\/p>\n

The morning he went home, nobody was laughing.<\/p>\n

My son, Adam, and his wife, Tara, had driven four hours to collect Ben and his seven-year-old sister, Sophie.<\/p>\n

They\u2019d asked me to keep the kids all summer because they were renovating their house.<\/p>\n

\u201cToo much dust,\u201d Adam had explained in June. \u201cWe don\u2019t want them breathing that stuff.\u201d<\/p>\n

I hadn\u2019t needed convincing.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m 65, and two months with my grandkids sounded less like a favor and more like winning something.<\/p>\n

We baked cookies, walked to the park, watched movies on my couch, and debated whether popcorn counted as dinner.<\/p>\n

Sophie talked enough for three people.<\/p>\n

Ben was quieter and thoughtful, the kind of child who noticed when my grocery bags looked heavy and grabbed one without being asked.<\/p>\n

That morning, I was making pancakes when Adam walked into the kitchen.<\/p>\n

\u201cAre they ready?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cAlmost. They need to eat first; you all do.\u201d<\/p>\n

Tara came in behind him and wrapped both hands around the coffee mug I handed her.<\/p>\n

She looked tired.<\/p>\n

Adam looked worse.<\/p>\n

\u201cHow\u2019s the house?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n

\u201cGetting there.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cThe kitchen floor finally done?\u201d<\/p>\n

Tara blinked.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe floor?\u201d<\/p>\n

I turned from the stove.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou said they were tearing it up.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cOh. Right. Yes.\u201d<\/p>\n

Adam cut in.<\/p>\n

\u201cIt\u2019s taking longer than expected. And the mess is unbelievable.\u201d<\/strong><\/h1>\n

Before I could ask anything else, Ben walked in without his backpack.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhere\u2019s your little green shadow?\u201d I asked. \u201cYour backpack?\u201d<\/p>\n

Adam frowned. \u201cWhat backpack?\u201d<\/p>\n

I lowered the spatula.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe small green one Ben\u2019s had all summer.\u201d<\/p>\n

Adam looked at him. \u201cWhere is it?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cIn the car.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cNo, it\u2019s not.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ben\u2019s shoulders tightened.<\/p>\n

\u201cNobody\u2019s in trouble,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n

Adam rubbed his forehead. \u201cJust get your shoes, buddy.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ben left without another word.<\/p>\n

A minute later, I watched him carry the green backpack outside to the car.<\/p>\n

I looked at my son.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhat was that?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cNothing, Mom.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cDidn\u2019t look like nothing.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cWe\u2019ve got a long drive ahead of us.\u201d<\/p>\n

That was Adam\u2019s usual way of ending conversations.<\/p>\n

Most times, I let him.<\/p>\n

That morning, I did too.<\/p>\n

Ten minutes later, we were outside saying goodbye.<\/p>\n

Sophie wrapped both arms around my waist.<\/p>\n

\u201cCan I come back next summer?\u201d Sophie asked.<\/p>\n

\u201cTry keeping me away.\u201d<\/p>\n

She giggled and ran toward the car.<\/p>\n

Ben hugged me next.<\/p>\n

\u201cCall when you get home,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n

\u201cOkay, Gran. I\u2019ll use Dad\u2019s phone.\u201d<\/p>\n

He started toward the car, then stopped.<\/p>\n

He looked up at the guest-room window.<\/p>\n

Not just a glance.<\/p>\n

Long enough that I followed his eyes.<\/p>\n

\u201cBen? Did you forget something?\u201d<\/p>\n

His eyes snapped back to me.<\/p>\n

\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n

Too fast.<\/p>\n

Adam opened the back door.<\/p>\n

\u201cCome on.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ben climbed in.<\/p>\n

I waved until their car disappeared.<\/p>\n

Then my house fell silent.<\/p>\n

After two months of footsteps and cartoons, the quiet felt unnatural.<\/p>\n

I went upstairs to strip the beds. Ben had slept in the twin bed beside the window.<\/p>\n

When I pulled at the fitted sheet, one corner caught.<\/p>\n

I lifted the mattress.<\/p>\n

Something scraped against the wooden frame.<\/strong><\/h1>\n

I reached into the narrow gap, expecting one of Ben\u2019s toys.<\/p>\n

Instead, my fingers closed around something cold and heavy.<\/p>\n

A brass key.<\/p>\n

A red tag hung from it, with an unfamiliar address written in Adam\u2019s handwriting.<\/p>\n

A folded piece of notebook paper had been wrapped around the key with a rubber band.<\/p>\n

I sat down before opening it.<\/p>\n

The first line read:<\/p>\n

\u201cBen, this key is yours.\u201d<\/p>\n

My chest tightened.<\/p>\n

I kept reading.<\/p>\n

\u201cIf you ever feel scared or confused, you always have a home with me.\u201d<\/p>\n

Then came the line that made me forget how to speak.<\/p>\n

\u201cNone of this is because of you. Love, Dad.\u201d<\/p>\n

The folds had turned white from being opened over and over.<\/p>\n

All summer, Ben hadn\u2019t been guarding toys in that green backpack.<\/p>\n

He\u2019d been guarding this.<\/p>\n

I called Adam.<\/p>\n

He answered quickly.<\/p>\n

\u201cHey, Mom. We\u2019re making good time.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI found a key in Ben\u2019s bed.\u201d<\/p>\n

Silence.<\/p>\n

\u201cA key?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cWith your handwriting on the tag.\u201d<\/p>\n

Adam gave a short laugh. \u201cIt\u2019s probably something from the renovation.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cThen tell me what it opens.\u201d<\/p>\n

Silence again.<\/p>\n

\u201cBen had it under his mattress, Adam.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cMom, I\u2019m driving.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cThen pull over when you can and call me back. Your handwriting is on the tag, and your note is here too.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019ll call you later.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cAdam, he carried that backpack everywhere for two months. Whatever this is, he\u2019s been worried about it.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cPlease don\u2019t involve Ben.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI didn\u2019t. You did.\u201d<\/p>\n

He disconnected.<\/p>\n

After the call, I went back upstairs.<\/p>\n

Under Ben\u2019s pillow, I found a torn sheet of notebook paper.<\/p>\n

Three lines were written in his careful handwriting:<\/p>\n

Dad \u2013 red door.<\/p>\n

Mom \u2013 blue mailbox.<\/p>\n

Grandma \u2013 four hours away.<\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t just a list.<\/p>\n

It was Ben trying to figure out where his family belonged now.<\/p>\n

I folded the paper and placed it beside the key.<\/p>\n

Then my phone rang.<\/p>\n

Tara.<\/p>\n

I answered immediately.<\/p>\n

\u201cTara?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cGrandma?\u201d<\/p>\n

My knees weakened.<\/p>\n

\u201cHey, Ben, sweetheart.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cDid you find it?\u201d<\/p>\n

I looked at the key.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe key?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cYes.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI found it.\u201d<\/p>\n

He breathed out.<\/p>\n

\u201cPlease don\u2019t tell Dad I left it there.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cWhy would he be upset?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cHe said it was important.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cHe said it was mine.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cDoes Sophie know?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cNo. She doesn\u2019t know anything.\u201d<\/p>\n

Then his voice dropped.<\/p>\n

\u201cPlease don\u2019t be mad at Dad.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m not.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cDon\u2019t be mad at Mom either.\u201d<\/p>\n

That hurt more than the note.<\/p>\n

Ben wasn\u2019t trying to protect himself.<\/p>\n

He was protecting both of his parents.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhere\u2019s your mom?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cInside paying for gas.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cPut her phone back, sweetheart.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cOkay.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cBen? You haven\u2019t done anything wrong.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cOkay.\u201d<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t sound convinced.<\/p>\n

Tara called that evening.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m sorry Ben called you.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cDon\u2019t apologize for him.\u201d<\/p>\n

She went quiet.<\/p>\n

Then she said, \u201cI don\u2019t want him dragged into this.\u201d<\/strong><\/h1>\n

\u201cHe already is.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cSylvia, please.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cHe called me from your phone because he was scared I\u2019d found something he wasn\u2019t supposed to lose. He\u2019s nine. Whatever is happening, he\u2019s carrying more of it than either of you realizes.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cAdam and I are living apart.\u201d<\/p>\n

I gripped the counter.<\/p>\n

\u201cFor how long?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cA few months. The renovations are real. They just weren\u2019t the whole reason the kids stayed with you.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cWhy didn\u2019t you tell me?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI wanted to. Adam asked me not to.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cWhy?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cBecause he thought you\u2019d tell him to come back home to me. We\u2019ve tried\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cIf there\u2019s still a marriage to save, I\u2019d want him to try.\u201d<\/p>\n

Tara went quiet.<\/p>\n

\u201cThat\u2019s exactly what he was afraid you\u2019d say.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m his mother.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cAnd he\u2019s 40, Sylvia. You have to let him go at some point.\u201d<\/p>\n

That landed harder than I expected.<\/p>\n

Tara continued more gently.<\/p>\n

\u201cDo you remember what you said when your cousin got divorced?\u201d<\/p>\n

I did.<\/p>\n

\u201cPeople give up too easily now.\u201d<\/p>\n

I\u2019d said it at my kitchen table.<\/p>\n

Adam had heard me.<\/p>\n

After we hung up, I called him.<\/p>\n

He answered with, \u201cMom, not tonight.\u201d<\/p>\n

<\/div>\n

\u201cYou have two children.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cWe were arguing constantly. We were making the house miserable.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cSo you left?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI moved out before we started saying things we couldn\u2019t take back.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cMarriage gets hard, Adam. Your father and I had years when we barely liked each other.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cAnd you think that means Tara and I should copy you?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cNo. I think you shouldn\u2019t walk away too fast.\u201d<\/p>\n

He gave a bitter laugh.<\/p>\n

\u201cThere it is, Mom. I know you\u2019d do this.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cAdam\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cThis is why I didn\u2019t tell you. You hear separation and immediately decide somebody failed.\u201d<\/p>\n

The call ended.<\/p>\n

Angry, I pulled out a casserole dish, cheese, and an onion.<\/p>\n

Halfway through chopping, I stopped.<\/p>\n

Nobody had asked me to feed them.<\/p>\n

I was trying to cover the problem with dinner.<\/p>\n

I put down the knife and called Adam again.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t answer.<\/p>\n

So I left a message.<\/p>\n

\u201cI made your marriage about what I believe before I asked what you\u2019re actually living through. I\u2019m sorry.\u201d<\/p>\n

I nearly added advice.<\/p>\n

This time, I didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Three weeks later, I drove four hours for Sophie\u2019s birthday.<\/p>\n

Adam opened the door.<\/p>\n

\u201cHi, Mom.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cHi.\u201d<\/p>\n

He gave me a quick hug, but it felt polite rather than warm.<\/p>\n

\u201cTara\u2019s out back.\u201d<\/p>\n

Outside, Sophie rushed over and hugged me while Ben sat at the table with his green backpack pressed against his chair.<\/p>\n

Later, Sophie tugged Adam\u2019s sleeve.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou\u2019re staying for cake, right?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cOf course.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cAnd after cake?\u201d<\/p>\n

Adam hesitated.<\/p>\n

\u201cFor a while.\u201d<\/p>\n

She accepted that and ran off.<\/p>\n

Ben didn\u2019t look up.<\/p>\n

Later, someone mentioned the renovations.<\/strong><\/h1>\n

\u201cThey\u2019re almost finished,\u201d Adam said too quickly.<\/p>\n

Ben stared at his plate.<\/p>\n

I almost rescued Adam by changing the subject.<\/p>\n

Instead, I gathered the empty cups and carried them inside.<\/p>\n

After everyone left, Adam followed me into the kitchen.<\/p>\n

\u201cMom, can you talk to Ben?\u201d<\/p>\n

I placed the cups in the sink.<\/p>\n

\u201cAbout what?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cAbout me and Tara.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cWhat do you want me to tell him?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cThat sometimes parents need space.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cYou want me to explain why you\u2019re living somewhere else.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cHe trusts you.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cThen tell him yourself while I\u2019m right there.\u201d<\/p>\n

Adam frowned.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe haven\u2019t decided how much he needs to know.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cHe already knows enough to be scared.\u201d<\/p>\n

I placed the brass key and note on the counter.<\/p>\n

Adam froze.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhere did you get those?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cUnder Ben\u2019s mattress, I told you.\u201d<\/p>\n

He grabbed the paper.<\/p>\n

Tara had just entered the kitchen.<\/p>\n

Adam looked between us.<\/p>\n

\u201cHe\u2019s had this all summer?\u201d<\/p>\n

I placed Ben\u2019s handwritten list beside it:<\/p>\n

Dad \u2013 red door.<\/p>\n

Mom \u2013 blue mailbox.<\/p>\n

Grandma \u2013 four hours away.<\/p>\n

Adam read it.<\/p>\n

\u201cHe wrote this?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cHe\u2019s been trying to work out where his family lives while the three of us kept pretending he didn\u2019t notice anything.\u201d<\/p>\n

Adam sank into a chair.<\/p>\n

\u201cHe saw the apartment and got upset. I gave him the key so he\u2019d know he had a home with me too.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cThen tell him the truth.\u201d<\/p>\n

Adam looked up.<\/p>\n

\u201cNot for me,\u201d I said, tapping Ben\u2019s note. \u201cFor him.\u201d<\/p>\n

We moved into the living room, and I sat in the chair across from Adam and Tara.<\/p>\n

Adam looked at Ben first.<\/p>\n

\u201cYour mom and I need to explain something we\u2019ve handled badly.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ben lowered his eyes.<\/p>\n

\u201cIs it about your apartment?\u201d<\/p>\n

Adam froze.<\/p>\n

Ben looked at the key on the table.<\/p>\n

\u201cI hid that when Dad asked about my bag that morning. I was going to get it before we left.\u201d<\/p>\n

Tara turned to him.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou knew Dad had an apartment?\u201d<\/p>\n

Ben nodded.<\/p>\n

Sophie looked between them.<\/p>\n

\u201cI knew Dad wasn\u2019t staying here. I just thought it was because you were still fighting.\u201d<\/p>\n

Adam rubbed his palms against his jeans.<\/p>\n

\u201cIt is because we\u2019ve been fighting. We decided I should stay somewhere else for a while so we could figure out what happens next.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sophie frowned.<\/p>\n

\u201cSo when you say you\u2019re going home after you visit us, you mean the apartment?\u201d<\/strong><\/h1>\n

\u201cYes.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cWhy didn\u2019t you just tell me that?\u201d<\/p>\n

Adam didn\u2019t have an easy answer.<\/p>\n

Tara reached for Sophie\u2019s hand.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe thought waiting until we understood what we were doing would make this easier for you.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cIt didn\u2019t.\u201d<\/p>\n

Tara\u2019s face fell.<\/p>\n

\u201cNo,\u201d she said quietly. \u201cIt didn\u2019t.\u201d<\/p>\n

Then Sophie looked at Ben.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou knew all summer?\u201d<\/p>\n

Ben nodded again.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhy didn\u2019t you tell me?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cDad told me not to worry you.\u201d<\/p>\n

Adam finally seemed to understand what that had meant.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou\u2019re right. I should\u2019ve told you enough that you didn\u2019t have to guess.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sophie swallowed.<\/p>\n

\u201cAre you getting divorced?\u201d<\/p>\n

Tara answered.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe don\u2019t know yet. We\u2019re trying to figure that out.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cAnd Dad might not come back?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cHe might not,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n

Sophie\u2019s eyes filled.<\/p>\n

Adam moved beside her.<\/p>\n

\u201cBut wherever I live, I\u2019m still your dad. You won\u2019t have to guess where I am anymore.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ben stared at the carpet.<\/p>\n

Adam turned to him.<\/p>\n

\u201cAnd you shouldn\u2019t have had to keep my apartment secret.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ben\u2019s shoulders shifted.<\/p>\n

\u201cI didn\u2019t want Sophie upset.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI understand why,\u201d Adam said. \u201cBut that wasn\u2019t your job.\u201d<\/p>\n

Then Adam started explaining why they had waited.<\/p>\n

Tara corrected him.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe both agreed to wait, Adam, but you were the one who wanted Ben to keep the apartment quiet.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cYou agreed because we didn\u2019t want Sophie worrying before we had answers.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cAnd she worried anyway.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ben\u2019s head dropped again.<\/p>\n

\u201cEnough.\u201d<\/p>\n

Both of them looked at me.<\/p>\n

\u201cLook at them.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sophie was wiping her cheeks.<\/p>\n

Ben had gone completely still.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou can settle who made which mistake later. Right now, you\u2019re turning the truth into another argument.\u201d<\/p>\n

Adam leaned back.<\/p>\n

I looked directly at him.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m your mother, Adam, so you get the harder version. Ben spent an entire summer carrying a key because you made him responsible for information he wasn\u2019t old enough to manage. Your intentions don\u2019t change what it became.\u201d<\/p>\n

Then I turned to Tara.<\/p>\n

\u201cAnd Sophie knew enough to worry but not enough to understand. Silence didn\u2019t protect either of them.\u201d<\/p>\n

Neither parent answered.<\/p>\n

I faced the children, softening my voice.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou two aren\u2019t supposed to carry the grown-up part of this. That\u2019s their job.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ben finally looked at me.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhat are we supposed to do?\u201d<\/p>\n

<\/div>\n

\u201cBe kids.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sophie reached for Tara\u2019s hand.<\/p>\n

Ben asked Adam, \u201cCan I still come to the apartment?\u201d<\/strong><\/h1>\n

\u201cWhenever you\u2019re with me.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cAnd Sophie?\u201d<\/p>\n

Adam looked at his daughter.<\/p>\n

\u201cShe\u2019ll have a place there too.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sophie wiped her face.<\/p>\n

\u201cI want to see it.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cYou will.\u201d<\/p>\n

For the first time that evening, nobody tried to explain anything beyond what was true.<\/p>\n

Two weeks later, all four of them came to visit me.<\/p>\n

When they were leaving, Ben reached the front door and stopped.<\/p>\n

\u201cMy backpack\u2019s upstairs.\u201d<\/p>\n

Adam turned toward the stairs.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019ll grab it.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ben thought for a moment.<\/p>\n

\u201cNo. I\u2019ll get it next time.\u201d<\/p>\n

Then he ran outside after Sophie.<\/p>\n

Adam stayed beside me.<\/p>\n

\u201cMom, thanks for helping.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019ll always help.\u201d<\/p>\n

He smiled.<\/p>\n

I held his gaze.<\/p>\n

\u201cBut I won\u2019t do your part for you again.\u201d<\/p>\n

This time, he understood exactly what I meant.<\/p>\n

\u201cI won\u2019t ask you to.\u201d<\/p>\n

After they drove away, I found the green backpack beside the guest bed.<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t open it.<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t move it.<\/p>\n

And I didn\u2019t carry it downstairs so Ben couldn\u2019t forget it again.<\/p>\n

I left it exactly where he\u2019d left it.<\/p>\n

For years, I\u2019d believed loving my family meant hiding every crack before anyone could see it.<\/p>\n

But Ben hadn\u2019t needed another person trying to hold everything together.<\/p>\n

He\u2019d needed the adults around him to stop handing him pieces to carry.<\/p>\n

So I left the backpack where it was.<\/p>\n

For once, nobody needed to pick it up.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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